NAYKA's Life Long LOVE Horoscopes & Travel Schedule

NAYKA's Life Long LOVE Horoscopes & Travel Schedule

Namaste from your favorite Tantra dakini, mentor and friend, NAYKA......

I am excited to present for you below your long awaited LIFE LONG LOVE Horoscope and song by yours truly....As I prepare to head South this upcoming week (See my schedule for the next 2 weeks at the end of this newsletter) I hope you can ponder the thought that went into each of your personalized sign and think deeply about what the Eastern side may have to say to you regarding the area of LOVE. It was really quite fun to write them. I will be reachable via my office phone in the morning hours through Wednesday and then I can only be reached via my cell phone when on the road. To schedule in any VISITING city, please begin by filling out my site's AVAILABILITY form to be contacted directly back. And here is your love scopes...........by NAYKA......

ARIES: Dear Aries: Remember that time when you were young and thought that you were going to change the world? You were the type of person who spent so much time worrying about pleasing other people that you've often not given yourself permission to be who you really are. This means that spiritually or sexually, you have not spent enough time learning about who you are authentically. Sensing always something is amiss, you sometimes express the wrong true emotion to the situation in front of you. You can over-react and misplace your feelings towards those who are closest to you, thus stirring all kinds of misunderstandings that need not really have occurred in the first place if only you had enough time to spend truly alone, truly unafraid, truly ready to surrender to the idea that being who you really are, is all you ever need for yourself and those who you love to be blissfully happy.

Your song: "I'm Free" By The Soup Dragons http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZVGf3ePIO04

TAURUS: Dear tough guy(or tough girl) First lay down on the floor. I don't want to be in the way if you decide to bite me with your words. Wink. No one will ever question how you feel on a variety of subjects or opinions regarding life's basics. You are always ready to be called upon for an opinion, or helping hand, and you never fail to respond with pizzazz when called upon. You are in a sense the "go-to guy." Even your significant other will not doubt your steadfast nature, your reliable ways, your ability to be called upon to go beyond for every task one asks of you......except in the bedroom. This is where things get tricky for you. Sometimes you give off the wrong signal about what your heart(and body) really want. You can sometimes have a difficult time expressing those desires and even if someone approaches you to compromise, you can blow off steam. Be conscious of what the power of words mean for you. Do your words work for or against you? Pay attention to your body's language and what "misunderstood" messages you may be giving your partner about your real desires. And remember: there is nothing sensual about a pair of boxer gloves hanging over the bedpost each night.

Your song:(play when all you do is mess up the words you wished you'd simply spit out) Dan Hardin's version "DO I Ever Cross Your Mind?" http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IE4XnpogLEI

GEMINI: Are you the Good Witch or the Bad Witch, the Fairy Godmother in the Wizard of Oz once asked. Sometimes Gemini, we really cannot say which twin will ultimately win out for you in terms of your preferences or commitments in the area of love. There are days in which you search for nothing more than a true soul-mate, a best friend and lover. You can articulate this desire so deeply that you convince all those around you that you are the real deal, the most convincing life-partner to be had. However, in private, you may secretly dream about living out a life completely alone, taking on perhaps many lovers while retreating alone in your bed, night after night. You feel guilty for this thought, maybe even more guilty for the temporary lack of good judgement in certain weak moments in life. But ask yourself this: what is your greatest fear in life? Perhaps you can not be truly satisfied with any amount of love until you face the Evil Twin by your side(Fear) and ask him straight up: "Why are you always following me?" Then one day the Universe will smile that instead of turning towards your Evil Twin, you turned towards your greatest Love.

Your song: Sing it to your other twin whenever they pull you away from who you really are: Damien Rice's "Rootless Tree" http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rQySgbCIklk

CANCER: I believe that when we die and ask GOD the question, "What Sign WOULD you be if you could pick one?" GOD would reply "Cancer." The reason being is that Cancers are not afraid to show us their emotions, be it good or bad. Sure you get slack for being crabby sometimes, but you are so giving and caring to a fault that everyone relies on you completely for the honest truth. You have spent a lot of time in your life giving endlessly to those who are not so worthy of your meaningful gifts. You are so compassionate in fact, that you find yourself upset and worrying because you do not surround yourself with the right "team of people" who are your spiritual/sexual equal. This leaves you with the added responsibility of taking care of everyone so much in your life that you start to forget the incredible natural talent you already possess: to be in the moment. You are capable of feeling both the bliss and the darkness and when you stop crying to yourself and look around, you'll see an Erotic love awakening within yourself not that different than the beautiful technicolor scene from Robin Williams's 1998 film, What Dreams May Come.

Your Song: Listen to this every time someone hurts you. Charlotte Martin's "On Your Shore." http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kdHnKKA--qc

LEO: There is no coincidence that Nayka has dated more Leo's than she can count. Who couldn't fall in love with your passionate, giving, intelligent, ambitious, go-getter self? No one owns a room and makes things happen better than a LEO. Passion. Check. Giving lover. Check. Which is why it is such a shame that you tend to be the kind of lover who has to lose several significant "great loves" in life because of your foolish pride. You do not follow the motto: I'd rather be Happy than To Be Right. And surely you have sat in your corner as time and fellow relationships passed you by all in the name of Pride. But who is really paying the price Leo? As passionate and giving as you may be, no relationship can thrive if the scale must always tip only in your favor and the partnership is not a true partnership, but really, a single Star? There is power in the words, "I'm sorry" and if you'd be willing to use them more often while sharing the stage with a more equal partner who wrestles the Lion, you may find yourself roaming the Jungle of Life like the true King and Queen of this very crazy and hectic Animal Planet we live in.

Your song: Grab it before you blow the next argument: Tracy Chapman's "Baby Can I Hold You?"
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kjRo_CHSdt0

VIRGO: Note to self: DO as I say and not as I do. If I could populate an entire planet with only one sign, I would surround myself with nothing but Virgos. Here's the reason why: Virgo's are the only sign who could multi-task life's needs so meticulously, humbly and efficiently and still leave room to live up to the one trait that no one credits them enough for: being the most sensual sign in the Zodiac. Perhaps no better sign than a Virgo could one truly understand the careful balance a 'partnership' requires and Virgo's have no interest in stealing the entire limelight. They are perfectionists as people, and if the right spiritual partnership is there, you will give of your entire body and soul in such a way that the intensity will make it very easy for endless Tantric sex nights. The problem lays in choosing the kind of partner who will not fear your many gifts, your ability to give, your drive for the possibility of a real happy ending in life. You see we, Virgos, have a habit of picking of stray animals to which we think if we love enough, will love us in the same intensity as we love. Do not feel guilty about demanding an equally giving, brilliant, witty, loving, sensual partner as yourself to play the course with. Just remember to not cram your soul-partner search in the time between saving the world and perfecting the best Western frittata anyone has ever tasted.

Your song: MY theme song. Paula Cole's "Me." http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ah7gPriANJM

LIBRA: Everybody needs at least three Libras in their repertoire of romantic partners in life. The reason is that Libras are so wonderful about appreciating the finer things in life while putting into equal balance of important to important values. Sure you love beautiful things. Yes you are darling in the role of host or hostess, witty and charming, even dapper at times..... which is why it comes as a surprise that you often go for the partner in life who doesn't understand you. It's as if you decided to go with a polar-opposite partner in life as if to say "Hey, I want to be challenged here." And challenged you are. There are certain souls that can never sit still no matter how hard they try. They tap furiously under tables, they make noise in every room they enter and they fill up conversations where one person's silence leaves off. Everyone loves having a Libra there because they think it will keep the energy balanced. What happens though is Libra gets a permanent card to keep them outside of their own soul. Covered on the outside by beauty and perfection, the illusion crumbles whenever they sit alone with themselves for longer than two seconds. And the reason why they do this is this simple: they fail to see their inner beauty that lingers inside themselves, crying like a baby that just simply wants to be held.

Your song: Hum it to yourself like a mantra. Madonna's "Frozen." http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9xtYEX9KDwY

SCORPIO: Some of the greatest Love stories of our time were that involving a Scorpio. Cleopatra, Picasso, Billy Graham..........Did you catch that last name? Yes, the famous preacher is also a Scorpio and I think he is the perfect example for you Scorpio of how real passion works. You see, all of that intensity, that raw sexuality, that passion is only going to continue to burn you unless you know how to harness it correctly. Sure you pick up lovers like bees on honey. But you lose them just as fast as well. I heard Billy Graham was asked the question once about the secret to his marriage to wife Ruth of 40 years. HE replied, "I let her make all of the decisions. It seems to be working." I am going to suggest to only YOUR sign that the secret to balancing out your fiery, emotional, passionate self is to infuse your life with a bit more practicality, reason and sound good judgement. This way, you'll BOTH arrive somewhere in the middle, at least some of the time!

Your song: Discover the quiet stillness of a secret garden to which to house your passions. Bruce Springsteen's "Secret Garden." http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BTl0QEULDA8

SAGITTARIUS: There is no other sign who can meet more people, have more friends, travel the world and accomplish great feats than a Sagittarius. The problem in love is not a question of meeting people. The problem you face is one of focus. You have to know clearly and consciously who you want to meet, or what you really want in order to receive it back. You don't always go deeper than the surface level of things, and this generally hurts you rather than helps you. There needs to be at least One person who crawls into the vulnerable space inside your heart who garners enough respect and worthiness in your eyes to be told what you really feel. You need not eliminate those important candidates all of the time. If you cannot do this task yourself, I suggest that you remember the holiday Valentines Day when you were in the second grade. Create the most beautiful card you can think of and plant it next to the person you've secretly admired for years. In the card write something like this: "You own me." Close your eyes and enjoy the ride.

Your song: You've already sung this and thought: maybe. Dave Matthews's "The Space Between"
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YvkX3t5LgVI

CAPRICORN: I believe the Moon was created specifically for Capricorns. When GOD created the Sun, the stars, the meteors, the other planets, it was a Capricorn who most likely snapped, "Is that all?" Sometimes Capricorns are so fussy about their external environment that they lose the ability to relax and be in a moment. The Moon though was created to keep you engaged. It is somber and dark, unpredictable and ever-changing. It is rough on the surface, it can be walked on but never tamed, and it is mysterious and brooding. When people write poetry, they are referring to the beauty of the moon rather than the reliability and ever-present sunshine. Yes, we cannot live without sunshine, but we can also not live without the balance of the ever-mysterious Moon either. The Moon reminds us to keep ourselves changing, unpredictable, beautiful, mysterious. Even if things are not always perfectly set in alignment to our preferences, we can still capture the beauty of the moment developing, step by step, and allow the Light to awaken us in our deepest sleep to a most beautiful romantic stirring that shakes our Soul.

Your song: NOTE TO ALL SIGNS: PLEASE SIT IN ON CAPRICORN's CHOSEN PIECE(The only non-song I've selected) It is a scene from MOONSTRUCK: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RejskBPgriQ

AQUARIUS: A naturally sunny person, you are a natural born dreamer. You are capable of seeing things way before they actually happen and your natural thirst for the intellectual brings you in relationships with equally interesting and eccentric folks. You must be careful though to not alienate yourself from those people who may have something to show you. You have a tendency to back out of soul-full opportunities because they intimidate you out of your pre-set comfort zone. You must accept that your critical side may actually be preventing your sensuality from blossoming fully in the creative way you are destined to be. In terms of your choices in love, you must take your love from the internal dialogue and bring it out in the open with those that you love. What is the point of all of those dreams and fantasies if you fail to choose at least one of them to become realty every now and then?

Your song: Shed yourself with this one by K.D. Lang "Sexuality" http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hmMNUiBCyRk

PISCES: Italy, thunderstorms, romantic movies, Valentines Day...they were all created with your sign in mind. You're easily accessible in the emotional sense, and you love everything about Romance. However, Romance and long-lasting LOVE are two very different things. And well, let's face it: you're not able to always able to get the LOVE part just right. It has nothing to do with your soul really. It has to do with your communication skills. You simply don't express your boundaries often enough to get your Love needs met. You are so in love with the "Fantasy" of what Love is that you've often been so wrapped up in that , you miss what is really happening in front of you. It's ok if LOVE contains a bunch of mistakes, do-overs, repeat offenses. It won't break you. In fact, it'll open you right up like the character Vanessa Paradis plays in the French move, Girl Under The Bridge. If you haven't seen this movie, you should. Like Paradis's character, you'll find yourself in the most unlikeliest of places with the most unexpected results.

Your song: Don't lose another moment of yourself.Give yourself the gift of you. Eminem's "Lose Yourself."
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=d6odzCYFOOQ

Here is my schedule through the end of December:

DECEMBER: CAPITAL REGION(HOME City)

For your appointment, please remember the following things the day of:

1) Please call that morning BEFORE 10 30am to confirm and get directions.
2) Please prepare the session fee in cash only, and place on table upon arrival.
3) Please be showered.
4) Please turn your cell phone off before arriving.
5) Please arrive right at the hour; I cannot take people earlier than their scheduled appointment as I am often returning calls or eating between sessions to prepare.

THIS IS A VERY INTERESTING AUDIO ONLINE that goes into what TANTRA is and how it can benefit physically every man and woman in their relationships:

http://www.tantragoddessoz.com/free-tantra-talk-play.html

I look forward to seeing you very soon! Advance scheduling is highly recommended during this very busy holiday season! Thank you for your support, love and patience! See you soon!